Friday, October 19, 2018

Aggressive Behavior

Aggressive Behavior 

There are many types of other aggressive behaviors that don't fit into the definition of bullying. It no way does that mean they are not as important or less serious to look into such as bullying. These behaviors just need to be looked at and approached differently.

Early Childhood

This is a time when kids are in the first time in there life able to interact with other children. Starting at the age of 3 to 5 the kids themselves are learning how to behave and get along with one another, share, and even understand ones feelings. Young kids at this age usually get angry when they don't get something they want but this isn't in no way bullying.
           
                    How To Help Young Kids Get Along.
  • Be a role model for the children. Show them ways how they can learn how to share and ask how to join in to games and activities. Have older children coach younger ones. Reward children for their kind behavior towards one another.
  • Children need to learn about the consequences of their actions. Encourage children to tell someone if another kid isn't being very nice. 
  • Set clear rules and regulations for behaviors. Monitor the children and how they interact with one another. 
  • Use appropriate age consequences for the behavior. Encourage the children to apologize when they hurt someone. 
Peer Conflict

If kids disagree on something or have a conflict it isn't bullying. Its important for them to resolve the problem appropriately.

Teen Violence In Dating

Teen Dating happens between people who are or once were in a relationship. 

Prevent Dating Violence

When it comes to being in a relationship they need to be honest, trustful, have equality, respect, and an compromise of the other person. Teen Violence between two people who are dating is a serious problem within The United States. 10% of teens have been a victim of teen violence in the past year and 29% been verbally abused in the last year.

             Teen Violence Can Be
  • Physical: Like bullying this includes hitting, punching, slapping, and kicking.
  • Emotional: Involves threatening them or even thyself. This involves name calling, controlling, being jealous, embarrassing them constantly, spying on them and even telling them who they can hang out with. 
  • Sexual:  Forcing them to have sex. 
This can cause negative affects on someones dating life. It can cause them to develop negatively about there sexuality and there intimacy. This can grow into adulthood and risk there own safety. It can have them become alcoholics, sexual predators, and even suicide attempts.  

Violence of any type can be prevented. 
                      Risk Factors
There are certain risk factors that may increase someone to increase there change of dating violence.


  • If your experiencing stressful events in life or showing trauma.
  • Live in poverty.
  • Exposed to neighborhood violence. 
  • Are participating in risky behaviors.
  • Date very early in life.
  • Start acting sexually early then 16.
  • Have behavior problems.
  • A friend of yours is involved in dating violence.
  • Friends are violent.
  • Being menstruating early.
  • Have harsh parents.
  • Low self esteem or desperate for attention.
  • Are anti-social.
  • Have problems seeking help.
There risk factors that someone is in likelihood to begin dating violence.
  • Have threatening behavior and believe that its acceptable.
  • Anger management issues.
  • Cant associate with peers.
  • Low self-esteem or depression.
  • No support from parents or adults.
To seek help for dating violence check out this website. https://youth.gov/youth-topics/teen-dating-violence/resources

Hazing

Hazing in when people illegally embarrasses others for own entertainment. 

Violence: Gangs

There are different ways to approach for help. 

Stalking

This is when you are constantly harassing someone or even threatening someone. 


Adults
Bullying is considered for school aged children but can happen to anyone. This type of bullying requires new kind of attention and strategies for adults. These are considered crimes and can trigger severe consequences for anyone over the age of 18. 

Many states and federal laws consider bullying like this serious crimes but have to be under serious terms like stalking or hazing.

How can adults help?
  • Talk to someone.
  • See if what they are doing is against the law. 
  • Report the criminal acts.
  • If sexual harassment contact collages Title lX coordinator to help.
  • Report it. 
If needing serious help or thoughts of suicide contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline or 1-800-273-TALK.

Workplace Bullying.

The term bullying is used between school aged kids. Adults can use power of bullying also.
https://www.cdc.gov/niosh/topics/violence/


Sources:
“Dating Violence Prevention.” Dating Violence Prevention | Youth.gov, youth.gov/youth-topics/teen-dating-violence.
faithintersections. “Reviving Ophelia Trailer.” YouTube, YouTube, 7 Feb. 2017, www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHzsUcsUKpo.
“Moment of Truth: Stalking Back (1993) Shanna Reed, Paul Rudd.” YouTube, YouTube, 15 July 2015, www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzeYwqo0aM8.
“Other Types of Aggressive Behavior.” StopBullying.gov, www.stopbullying.gov/what-is-bullying/other-types-of-aggressive-behavior/index.html#early.
“Risk Factors.” Risk Factors | Youth.gov, youth.gov/youth-topics/teen-dating-violence/risk.
theounceofprevention. “Teaching Moment: Getting along with Others.” YouTube, YouTube, 25 Apr. 2012, www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJaJZvw7Fkg.









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